Stanislaw Stopka

I am a psychodynamic counsellor who works with individuals and couples. You might be facing challenges in your relationships, struggling with intimacy or sexuality, feeling low in confidence, stuck in your career, or unsure about your direction in life. You may just have a sense that something is not quite right, and you want things to feel different.

In our work together, I offer a safe and supportive space where you can talk openly and begin to understand yourself more deeply. My approach is based on psychodynamic therapy, which means we look at how past experiences may be affecting how you feel and act today. I also draw on other methods when they are helpful, depending on what you need.

I am in the final year of training in Psychosexual Therapy at Tavistock Relationships — one of the leading centres in the UK for understanding relationships and emotional wellbeing.

I offer online sessions and work with you at your own pace. Reaching out for support can feel like a big step, but you do not have to figure things out alone. If any of this speaks to you, I would be glad to hear from you.

 I offer online sessions via Zoom, providing a safe and confidential space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings. #

I bring a professional approach combined with personal life experience, including a deep understanding of cultural diversity, emigration experiences, and differences related to religion, race, and sexuality.

In my psychosexual therapy work, I balance empathetic listening with guided education and practical support to help you better understand yourself and your relationships.

You can expect a respectful, open, and supportive environment tailored to your unique needs and background.

Please see my website for more information, or feel free to contact me directly with any questions.

By visiting this page, you’ve already taken an important first step toward starting therapy. First sessions are really about us getting to know each other and understanding what’s brought you here.

I know that some of the things you might share could be new, even to yourself, and I’m here to listen whenever you feel ready to be fully yourself. Building trust, feeling safe, and being patient with yourself takes time—and that’s completely okay. Being open and honest helps me understand your story better so I can support you in the best way possible.

I offer a caring, non-judgmental space where we can explore your experiences together. Therapy is a journey of discovery, and we’ll take it step by step, working together to find the path that feels right for you.